How can anyone be for adoption?

Question by Moi: How can anyone be for adoption?
How can anyone be so willing to separate a womb wet infant from it’s mother so they can pretend that it is their own? Is that a sort of mental illness? How come so many people use their god to promote the separation of mother and child? Wasn’t this god about helping the widowed and orphans? Why is so much that the bible teaches known brainwashing techniques? How can anyone think it is wonderful to not help a person struggling except to offer their help by taking their child? How is taking a person down on their luck child being helpful?
Maggie I read your question and I gave an answer, you shoul hurry and go check. I said to adopt children already born. No reason to go through a whole pregnancy to give away a baby. Plenty of deserving children that already need homes. No reason to bring in extras.

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Answer by Sarah
i agree to an extent…i don’t think i feel as strongly as you but i only believe in adopting REAL orphans unless the mother it mental insane or on drugs etc

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11 thoughts on “How can anyone be for adoption?”

  1. People give up babys for a lot of reson i my self am adopted. People may have to give up the child. Also think about rape vitems how do you think they fell?
    Or people who can not have children if some one offerd to have one for them think how happy they would be.

  2. I think adoption should be all about finding families for kids who have no one. 95% of the world’s orphans are over five years old. I’m all for that sort of adoption.

    Unfortunately adoption has morphed in recent decades to finding babies for couples that want to have families. I’m definitely against that sort of adoption.

  3. Pick me! I know! You could actually READ my full question before you write counter it with another.

    Also, please never use the term, “womb wet” again. It’s a little nauseating.

    Why is it so difficult to understand that some people don’t want or can’t take care of children. The easy solution is “don’t get pregnant” but things happen and adoption is a beautiful solution.

  4. I don’t know. Adoption needs reform, and if someone can deny the fact that it does, I think there is a bit of denial going on.
    I suppose the “grateful” aspect, the religious aspect, and the social pressures cause those who don’t have a connection to adoption say things that make those who do feel awkward about their own feelings.
    When I realized that I have the right to own my own feelings on the subject, I realized an awful lot about adoption. It was a scary wake up, but I’m glad I had it.

  5. Maybe instead of thinking about everyone else who is involved and the mothers feelings and the families feelings, you should think about what is best for the baby. And really, honestly, truly, it’s not always with the mother. No every women who chooses adoption is coerced into it. That’s just false.

    There is no reason to go through a whole pregnancy to give away a baby? That’s so offensive and hurtful. Maybe it’s not the right circumstances according to our culture, but everyone deserves a chance at life.

  6. Well, I can say that I didn’t separate any “womb wet” infant (I find that term almost as distasteful as those who use it) from it’s mother.

    In the case of all three of our adopted children they were either voluntarily surrendered well before we came onto the scene or they were apprehended and removed by CFS due to documented and court verified hazards and circumstances. The birth mothers of our last two children were offered the help they need, driven and admitted to the help they needed and offered that help yet again. These instances are documented and indisputable. You can lead a horse to water……sums things up perfectly. Especially those cases where foster care is involved.

    I make no apologies to you or to anyone for our involvement in the adoption process and we went through it without reservations of any kind.

  7. Well I am adopted and my 2 children are adopted and it is better than our moms not wanting us and aborting us , isn’t it? I am a Christian and I am not about separating a child from his/her mother, i am for what is best for the mother and child. As a matter of fact, our 18 yr old adopted daughter is pregnant and she is keeping her child. She could not separate herself from her baby. So you are saying that it would be better to abort than continue in a pregnancy “just to give the child up for adoption?” Adoption is very important in the bible by the way. Yes God is about helping widows and ORPHANS- and orphans are children without parents. You are right there are many children that need homes, but do you realize how hard it is to adopt them? I know we tried

  8. Frankly I have NO idea how APs can justify infant adoption from agencies. Spending up to 40,000 dollars for a newborn (which means lining the pockets of adoption agency owners) and then saying it was God’s will for them to line up and beg for infants. Go read some of the “birth mother” letters they have on websites, they are literally begging for some poor girl to choose them instead of doing some good in this world and adopting a child from foster care.

    How can domestic infant adoption cost 30,000 + but infant adoption from foster care be virtually free? I just dont get it. $ $ $ $ $ $ $ for babies is disgusting.

    Apparently foster children dont need loving parents, and if anyone really cared about “helping a child” that is where they would be adopting from.

  9. “How can anyone be so willing to separate a womb wet infant from it’s mother so they can pretend that it is their own?”
    Infertility. It makes people do crazy things, you know. They want a baby so bad they just take it. “After all, who cares about the birthmother? She ‘willingly’ gave up her child, after all.” No, she didn’t. She was coerced.

    “How come so many people use their god to promote the separation of mother and child?”
    Religion is so commonly abused, “Christians” are making god look like a crackhead. He isn’t.

    “Wasn’t this god about helping the widowed and orphans?”
    Oh, orphans? Thats a totally different story. Trust me, you will not find anyone against adopting true ORPHANS. I am pro-orphan adoption. Orphans already lost their parents due to death or neglect/abuse and end up in foster care. Those children need families. Unborn babies already have a family.

    “Why is so much that the bible teaches known brainwashing techniques?”
    Woah, when did the bible give a list of “techniques” to separate a child from his or her natural family?

    “How can anyone think it is wonderful to not help a person struggling except to offer their help by taking their child?”
    Its wonderful for the adoptive parents because they gain a child. Its not wonderful for the child or the parents.

    “How is taking a person down on their luck child being helpful?”
    It isn’t.

  10. Well, I can say that I didn’t separate any “womb wet” infant (I find that term almost as distasteful as those who use it) from it’s mother.

    In the case of all three of our adopted children they were either voluntarily surrendered well before we came onto the scene or they were apprehended and removed by CFS due to documented and court verified hazards and circumstances. The birth mothers of our last two children were offered the help they need, driven and admitted to the help they needed and offered that help yet again. These instances are documented and indisputable. You can lead a horse to water……sums things up perfectly. Especially those cases where foster care is involved.

    I make no apologies to you or to anyone for our involvement in the adoption process and we went through it without reservations of any kind.

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