Question by Christie: Considering abortion?
First, I would like to discourage any pro-lifer from answer my question if they are going to be offensive. I’m not trying to be flamed and I’m already in a difficult position as it is.
So here it goes. I found out that I was pregnant 2 days ago. I was feeling sick and my breast tender. I’ve been on birth control, but recently switched brands so I was not considering the possibility that I could be pregnant. However, I got a ahpt and it turned out a positive result. I was devastated. The first thing I did was tell my fiancé. At first he was supportive and told me that he would support me whatever I decide to do. But then he told his mom and sister, both had abortions in the past, and regretted it later. They both called me urging me not to “kill your baby” and that I would regret it and won’t be able to have children later. I was highly offended by this considering I feel that they are not in a position to cast stones at me.
I made my appointment to have the abortion by medicine to induce a miscarriage. I’m 22, about to graduate college soon, and I don’t know what I want to do with my life. I know what I don’t want right now, including having a baby. Its why I was on birth control. I know later in life I will be more ready and capable to raise a child, but right now I’m not.
Now my fiancé has turned his back on me. He wants me to have the baby so we can be a family. He said if I go through with it, he is going to leave me. I feel terrible for him but I hate how he is putting so much pressure on me along with his family.
I know if I have the abortion, a part of me will feel sad for what I’ve done. But I know one day I will be able to give my baby a great mother. Just times are rough and too uncertain. This world is scary enough without a baby.
Also, I’m a Christian. I am also pro-choice, but I never thought I would consider abortion for myself. I’m afraid God will never forgive me if I do…
Please any sound advice would be much appreciated. I don’t want criticism. This is a difficult time for me.
Hi pretty in pink, I understand your question and it’s a valid one. I’m wanting to join the military. Im afraid it won’t be possible for me any more. I just feel like I’m not mature enough to be a mother.
You know what RZ, since you know jesus so well you would know that he said “let he who is without sin cast the first stone.” don’t remember? Look up John 8:7 and there you have proof. Read the whole story. Understand that God will judge you the very same way you judge me and he doesn’t weigh one sin more than the other. So you will be judged in the same way as a “fornicator” “adulterer”. Still holding that stone?
Answer by Two Pretty in Pink
I don’t mean to sound judgmental, but if you’re engaged, about to graduate college, and the baby was conceived out of love – why don’t you want the baby?
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